Story

I want to help my grandparents at least 25% of the total debt they owe someone, so that I could go to school. Me and my parents had a big fight 3 months ago when this school year first started. So my grandparents took me in and took care of me, they borrowed money from someone they knew to pay for school. What was supposed to happen was if me and my parents was on good terms, we will finished our vacation here on “Gensan” and go back to “Cebu” I was already enrolled in cebu when vacation started, but I didn’t wanna go with my parents back home in “cebu”. So they left me here with my grandparents who took me whole heartedly. They have to borrow money because they had to pay ₱15,000 in my old school to drop me out and take my card back so that I could get enroll in “gensan”, because class already started a week ago, and private school have these policies that the longer you drop out (depends on how long) the more you pay, like I think if you drop out 1 month after the first class started you had to pay the whole tuition if you want to dropout and get your card. You could just not go to school but you can’t get enrolled in another school if you don’t have the card. So my grandparents borrowed money and is still on debt. My parents refused to help because my grandparents took me in. What happened between me and my parents was not good. It all started when my parents wants to hire me as an assistant because they had a plan in mind, and then while the conversation was going smooth I started asking about them making a business, because I always hear talk all the time making criticism about making business out of this product and that. They answered they don’t want too becuase it’s not just their field and they proceed to tell me to not belittle them, like comparing them to my aunt’s husbands who was a business man, which I did affirm and give assurance from that I never do that because whatever your occupation is even if it’s a janitor while it’s low on wadge you cannot deny the fact that they work hard and is not something you could belittle becuase it’s admirable to work hard. All talk went smooth until the topic was about what I want to pursue on college and what’s ny plan. I was hesitant to tell them at first about what I plan on, becuase when I was young I was nothing but an addict who just wants play games and was spoiled, so I really don’t have any credibility or any reliable proof to prove that I could do what I want, cuz all my life all I have been doing was pointless, that’s why the main plan was supposed to be, to tell them about my plan in the end of this school year so that I could prove my competence and skills and have something that can back me on, not just those stupid pointless things.In the end I spilled it saying that before going to college I want to take a year off becuase I wanna do alota things ( I wanna hustle, and accumulate hand to hand experience on advertising on streets and trying out to be a middle man for partnership in small and medium businesses and etc.) without even having any credible reason or proof that I could do it. So they didn’t allow which is fine and is reasonable but it didn’t stop there, what happened was very degrading and dehumanizing, the words used at me and the actions they did to assault me. When they can just say no and I can’t do anything about it, it wasn’t even necessary to be out of control and do all the things they did to me. Like they literally want to know what I want and I told them if they don’t like it then don’t like it why does it have to result on assault, dehumanizing, spitting and all those just because I answered you and tell what I want. Long story short my grandparents found out cuz my mom lashed out her anger becuase of I want and because of my ridiculous plan which literally they had control over and I can’t do anything about it if they don’t allow it. Then my grandparents analyzed both side and took me in and that’s it. If you any question or message please feel free to send me an email at [email protected]. I Thank everyone who donated from the bottom of my heart!